The Expected Self: Alignment, Balance, Choice

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Are you finding life difficult and don’t know why? Are you thinking about therapy or need to know how to ‘do’ life in a way that is more relaxing and without negative feelings and emotions taking their toll? Do you or someone you know need practical help to get in touch with emotions?

This timely book ‘The Expected Self ‘ is both a practical and active book detailing the authors’s unique ‘Three Selves’ method which is full of resources and steps you can take before, during, after or, even as an alternative to face to face therapy.
In this superb, easy-to-read practical book Gareth Palmer shares:

valuable examples of people who have tentatively begun therapy with feelings of shame and guilt and have transformed their lives for the better.practical techniques that you can apply to you’re own life to initiate positive changemultiple insights into why men suffer from anxiety and depression (and exercises to help overcome these conditions)guidance on how those who do not identify as ‘men’ also suffer from mental ill health and how this model can work for them.expert advice on how to move away from the compulsions that drive men and steer them towards a more easeful and authentic way of livingand much more.

This is a unique method, and is based on what works. The ‘Three Selves’ model describes the ways in which these selves are made and continue to function. What the model explores is that these three selves are at different levels of consciousness and as such they interweave with one another.

The author draws on his 14 years’ experience as a Manchester (UK) -based therapist working with literally hundreds of men across thousands of hours, men from all walks of life to create this practical and easy to follow manual for change. His unique and practical model of the ‘Three Selves’ has been worked through in therapy sessions with people other than those identifying as men and has been found to be effective with people from various backgrounds and is not gender specific. It demonstrates how you have developed relationships with your body, other people, your thinking and your emotions – four fundamental relationships which are unconscious reactions to your environment.
An appreciation of the way you are that have been shaped by these largely unconscious mechanisms can be the catalyst for enormously positive changes in your life and in your relationships.
Use the ‘look inside’ feature now to sample the opening pages of this much-needed practical model. There’s never been a more crucial time for this practical guide book to promote therapeutic change.

ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0C6C6R7L8
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Independently published
Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 17, 2023
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Print length ‏ : ‎ 114 pages
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8394441172
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 5.7 ounces
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.26 x 9 inches
Best Sellers Rank: #2,649,703 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #205,719 in Self-Help (Books) #432,417 in Religion & Spirituality (Books)
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